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Romance Scams Are on the Rise – How Do You Keep Your Mom Safe?

Romance scams took first place for the highest financial loss in 2018.
An FTC story reports that $143 million was lost in romance scams during that year. The median loss was $2,600. Men and women between the ages of 40 and 69 fell for these scams most often, but those 70 or older lost more money to romance scams. The median loss for those 70 or older was $10,000.


Home Care in Rockridge CA: Romance Scams

Home Care in Rockridge CA: Romance Scams


If your mom is a widow or divorced and seeks romance, it’s important that you talk about how to avoid romance scams. Share this information with her. Make sure she knows the most important thing if she does fall for a scam is not to stay silent. She needs to tell the authorities and provide every little bit of information she can.


How Romance Scams Work

There are several variations of romance scams. What happens is, someone creates a fake profile and uses it on dating sites or social media sites. That person may approach someone saying he/she saw their profile and is interested and wants to connect. Some wait for the victim to find and message the fake profile.

Time is then spent sharing stories and getting to know each other. The scammer says everything the person wants to hear. There’s plenty of praise, messages of adoration, and, eventually, news that the scammer has fallen in love. This is what the person seeking a relationship wants to hear.

As time passes, the scammer starts to make requests. A woman in Ireland lost more than $340,000 in a scam where the man she thought she was in a relationship with asked her to pay his children’s tuition in the U.K.

Scammers will say they want to meet up but lack the money for the flight. Men and women who fall for romance scams will send money. Other requests might involve sending money to help pay for an engagement ring or elopement plans, pay court fees for some minor offense, or pay medical bills.


Your Mom Is Less Likely to Be Scammed if She Has Companionship

It’s estimated that only 1 out of every 10 victims reports the romance scam to the police. It’s important to take this step to help police investigate and to prevent the scam from happening to others. Make sure your mom knows this.

Arrange senior care services to make sure she avoids being lonely. If she’s lonely, she’s more likely to fall for a romance scam. Caregivers provide companionship services, in addition, they help with transportation, household chores, and meals. Talk to a senior care specialist to discuss the available services and their rates.


If you or an aging loved-one are considering hiring Home Care in Rockridge, CA, call the caring staff at Aviva In-Home Care. Call today: (415) 795-2203






Evan Loevner, CEO

As a former hospital administrator, I launched Aviva with the goal of having a more focused, direct impact on the delivery of care than I could ever accomplish within a hospital setting. For me, the joy of running an organization like Aviva In-Home Care is having the ability to positively improve the lives of individuals needing customized care. As a passionate Bay Area resident, I know that many local seniors can benefit from new approaches to in-home care, that will bring them more connection to the community, and provide families with a greater sense of comfort that their loved one is indeed matched with an ideal caregiver. This starts by including the family throughout the care planning process, a key component of the concept of “family-centered care,” which has been adopted by top medical centers. A strong communication loop between family, the caregiver, Aviva management, and community healthcare practitioners is essential for ensuring that all the needs of the client are met. While this may not sound like a novel concept, it is not commonly practiced within the home care community.

At Aviva, we also use the latest in health technology to maximize opportunities for communication between all members of our client’s care circles. We utilize nursing oversight to ensure that we are in compliance with physician orders, and that our careplans are being properly administered. Lastly, Aviva is a proud member of The Senior’s Choice, a national network of leading home care agencies that share best practices and focus on continual improvement.

As owner of the business, I also promise to you my direct involvement in your loved ones care, and will always make myself available for feedback and improvements in our service. I look forward to working with you and your loved one on creating a care plan that is perfectly suited to the family's needs. Thank you for considering Aviva as your care partner.

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